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Isiponji

Umunca imizwa yawo wonke umuntu ngaphandle kweyakho.

Awunazo izinkinga. Unezinkinga zabanye abantu, futhi zihlala esifubeni sakho. Ungena egumbini futhi ngaphakathi kwemizuzwana engamashumi amathathu uyazi ukuthi ubani othukuthele, ubani odabukile, ubani ozenza sengathi uyaphila. Kusihlwa usudiniwe — futhi okubi kakhulu ukuthi awukwazi ukukuchaza. Awenzanga lutho. Wenze nje… wazwa konke, ngenxa yawo wonke umuntu.

Izimpawu ezi-3 obungazazi ngawe

  • Ungachaza imizwa yabathandekayo bakho ngokuningiliziwe, kodwa ungakwazi ukuphendula lutho lapho ubuzwa ngeyakho.
  • Uxolisa ngezinto ezingelona iphutha lakho. Izikhathi eziningana ngosuku.
  • Ushiya izimo zenhlalo udinwe kakhulu kunalapho ufika khona — ngisha nezijabulisayo.

Ingozi efihlekile

Iziponji ziphela buthule. Ngolunye usuku uzovuka uzizwa ungezwa lutho — futhi uzokubiza ngokuthi "ngikhathele nje."

Lokho okudingayo ngempela

Imvume yokuba nemizwa yakho. Nemingcele yokuyivikela.

Uhlelo lwakho ngezinyathelo ezintathu

  1. 1

    Bhala lapho kuvuza khona

    Bhala imizwa yakho nsuku zonke. Hlukanisa eyakho neyabanye abantu.

  2. 2

    Imikhuba yokuzimisa

    Ukuphumula okuphefumulayo kabili komzuzu emithathu ngosuku ukuze ubuyele kuwe.

  3. 3

    Indawo ethule yokuphephela

    Umzuzu othulisayo kusihlwa ngakunye ukuze ukhiphe okungeyona eyakho.

Amasonto akho angu-12 azayo

  1. Son1 Umngcele wokuqala ubekiwe
  2. Son3 Izinsuku ezimbalwa zokuthi "ngikhathele ngaphandle kwesizathu"
  3. Son6 Amandla ekupheleni kosuku
  4. Son12 "Ngizwa sengathi nginobumina futhi"

Isiqagelo esiyisibonelo — uhambo ngalunye luhlukile.

Thola isimo sakho sangempela

Thatha ukuhlolwa kwamahhala kuhlelo bese uthola uhlelo lwakho lwezinyathelo ezintathu olwenzelwe wena.